When stats are enabled, rxi_ReadPacket calls FindPeer immediately
the packet is received from the wire. The peer structure that it
gets is used solely to increment a counter, and then thrown away.
Given that FindPeer requires a lock, and a hash lookup, this is
really inefficent.
Instead, delay the compilation of statistics until rxi_ReceivePacket.
Call FindPeer for version and debug packets which have no associated
connection otherwise wait until we have found the packet's connection,
and use the peer which is linked from there.